Either we’re being trolled, or the explanation didn’t fit into their meme / description very well i.e. maybe they tried explaining spoon theory and the person replied that this is the only kind of spooning that exists? I don’t know. I am confused.
See: that’s what it sounds like. Or that the person explained spoon theory and how sometimes people don’t have the spoons to get out of bed and the person replied saying “Oh, when my boyfriend and I decide to spend a day in bed I’ll call it spooning”.
Why the fuck is that so hard to get?
Because, from the information provided in the post, the implication that many people took from this is that the OP believed ‘spooning’ to be an appropriation of ‘spoon theory’, where in fact it is a word in its own right. Also, saying that you like lying in bed all day sometimes when you’re feeling lazy doesn’t erase disabilities, it’s just a comment about personal preference. There’s probably more context to this scenario that would disambiguate this, I just think the post wasn’t very well expressed and has proved confusing to some people… or it’s a troll.