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May 2011

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nimself:

mindovermatterzine:

Either we’re being trolled, or the explanation didn’t fit into their meme / description very well i.e. maybe they tried explaining spoon theory and the person replied that this is the only kind of spooning that exists? I don’t know. I am confused.

See: that’s what it sounds like. Or that the person explained spoon theory and how sometimes people don’t have the spoons to get out of bed and the person replied saying “Oh, when my boyfriend and I decide to spend a day in bed I’ll call it spooning”.

Why the fuck is that so hard to get?

Because, from the information provided in the post, the implication that many people took from this is that the OP believed ‘spooning’ to be an appropriation of ‘spoon theory’, where in fact it is a word in its own right.  Also, saying that you like lying in bed all day sometimes when you’re feeling lazy doesn’t erase disabilities, it’s just a comment about personal preference. There’s probably more context to this scenario that would disambiguate this, I just think the post wasn’t very well expressed and has proved confusing to some people… or it’s a troll.

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The thing that really bothers me about those pdp memes

lovelyladyplant:

I’ve been feeling like this too. I by no means think we need to respect people who oppress us, but at the same time, I want to work for change and I know I can’t affect a whole lot of (positive) change if I come off as angry and hateful.

I’m getting a really ‘holier than thou’ tone from it too. I want to engage with people, talk about why they think the way they do, and try to show them why I think their discriminatory attitudes are unfair and hurtful. This is what I do when presented with oppressive sentiments irl. If I did irl what fypdp does (i.e. impersonate the person with a smarmy facial expression, quote them and lay into how ignorant / misguided / terrible they are), I know I wouldn’t get anywhere. I don’t see how it would help online. 

However, I’m white, straight and cisgendered. My only oppressed qualities are being female and mentally ill - I recognise that other oppressed groups have a lot of anger about the way they are treated and maybe this provides a platform for them which might help it - I just think I’ll be unfollowing now.

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The thing that really bothers me about those pdp memes

joshishollywood:

I mean, aside from the fact that I find those advice animal template memes to be rather tired as a whole

Is that these causes actually need fighting

People are distressingly dismissive of disorders, diseases, discriminations and general difficulties that they cannot see, hear or experience for themselves and there are legitimate, level-headed ways to actually deal with that fact

Fyeahpdp is not one of those ways

I know when we’re being oppressed the last thing we feel like doing is showing any amount of respect to the person oppressing us and I’m not saying you should do that

But immature, poorly articulated sarcasm doesn’t do anyone any favours, the least of all people in the same position as you

This articulates well an uncomfortable feeling I’ve been having about fyeahpdp lately. 

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“1 in 4 people, like me, have a mental health problem. Many more people have a problem with that.” —Stephen Fry 
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#for once this shit is worth reblogging

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jauxelin replied to your photo

Other than developmental psych, this is pretty much incorrect.

Why so? Do you mean developmental neuroscience or psychology? I’m no Freudian, but the illustration was taken from this article, and it’s a pretty interesting read. The author is obviously biased (and the text in the image hyperbolic), but there are neuro-Freudian perspectives emerging in the literature. 

May 28, 2011
#jauxelin
For the past 4 years I've worker as a mental health case worker with a multidisciplinary team that services clients with severe and persistent mental Inness (most predominately schizophrenia, schizoaffective disorder and bipolar disorder). I have found my life's work here and am commuted to this field of work. I have a Psychology degree and a Master's degree in Medicine. I'm hoping to take a break from work and pursue a one year social work program. I'd eventually like to end up at the IoP. I have looked into the Mental Health Studies masters that you are pursuing. Can you tell me you thoughts about the program? I am a Canadian so I would have to work out the logistics of applying as an international student. Would you reccommend the school? Thanks for any advice/opinions you can offer. Carla.

Honestly i wouldn’t recommend it in terms of what it inherently is. The only thing it’s done for me is killed my desire to become a clinical psychologist. It’s very basic and you will probably know most of the course content already. If I would have known what it had turned out to be, I would never have done it. It’s useful for the part time students who are mental health nurses as they can learn about stats and research methods, and it’s useful for psych grads who didn’t really specialize in mental health at undergrad. The only thing I can console myself with having spent so much on it is that at least I’ll have a postgrad degree of some description and it’s better than nothing: the IoP is a prestigious school and people look upon a qualification from here very favourably.

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problematic parts of twin peaks

vesuvii:

now, this is my first time watching twin peaks. i’m overall in love with the show but i need to vent about some things that really fucking bug me.

1. hawk. he is a first nations person, so that means he obviously has to be the amazing scout of the police department with a great understanding of spirituality and is wiser than the white man. yikes. david lynch, could you keep your racist stereotypes out of twin peaks (mr tojamura is a nightmare as well (“shank you” really????)).

2. gordon cole’s hearing problem. he talks loudly and never understands what other people are saying. it’s supposed to be funny. people’s bodies and how they function in a world hostile to their bodies is never hilarious. 

How about Leland Palmer’s Dickensian ‘madness’?

I love the show, but yeah, some of these things made me uncomfortable.

May 27, 201151 notes
Dear Parents..a open letter to parents of children with autism.

fyeahautismspectrum:

I often read post by Parents of autistic children and some things often trouble me about them.

First thing is that they often talk like there life is destroyed by there child’s autism. Imagine that your children will read this, how will they feel ? Even though it are not my parents writing these things, my first reaction is to feel guilty for extincting, like a burden for everyone around me, especially those I love. I’m sure that they don’t mean this but by damning autism you are damning a big part of your child.

Second is that I get the impression that parents don’t know that there children love them and that is quite disturbing to me. I am absolutely sure that even if they can’t show it or just can’t show it in a way that you are use to, they do feel it. They love like any other child would love there mum or dad.

I am worried that the so called experts aren’t clear enough about this and would find it a shame if parents would mistake the inability to show love in the conventional way for an inability to love.

A third is I hear the phrase, autism stole my child a lot but your child is not gone, not even partly. Even non-verbal children are there, I think that also here the mistake is made that the inability to express is seen a an inability to feel, think, see, hear and understand.

with high regards,

me

Yes yes yes. I don’t want to give the impression that I’m having a go at some parents of autistic children here (people react differently to unexpected circumstances), but I agree so much with this. Autism is not some malevolent force that subverted your child, it is a part of who they are, and it’s no worse than being neurotypical. 

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#autism #submission

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iwannabetheverybest-medic replied to your post: Just wondering, why don’t you have replies activated on your posts?

Taa! Much prefer it this way!

I had wondered why I wasn’t getting replies to posts! Thanks for the prompt!

May 27, 2011
#iwannabetheverybest-medic
Just wondering, why don't you have replies activated on your posts?

I didn’t know they weren’t. Will look into it now.

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The gay conversion therapist case has been going on for so long but Patrick Strudwick went as a journalist and not as a patient. He was actively seeking her out after being tipped off. Just like the B & B Christian guest house discrimination case. It was a deliberate undercover act to show up homophobia. But nether the less Patrick says that lots of people contacted him as a gay journalist with their gay conversion therapy stories! I am really glad it turned out the way it did! The Daily Mail was horrid during the whole thing! Its never been suggested that I have gay conversion therapy by anyone I have had therapy or counselling from and don't know any gays in the UK who have been near that area either (its far more widespread in America). Every therapist or counsellor I have ever seen has been professional about my sexuality and if they felt they couldn't give me advice in that area they would suggest someone else! You should be able to speak to your therapist / counsellor about anything with no judgement! I have to say from this whole story I am disappointed with BACP and the protection for people getting counselling. They did rule the right way on this but I feel I don't really have any protection if the counsellor or therapist was a bad one! They always say look for someone on the BACP database! I know this type of counsellor is probably in the minority but seeing talking therapies I have been at my most vulnerable. I hope there is more legal protection in future and not just self-regulation :(

Totally; I mentioned that he was a reporter and, although he may not have been someone who genuinely needed counselling, or someone who was uncomfortable with their sexuality, I still think it must be hard to hear someone say that your sexuality is ‘wrong’, ‘needs curing’ or is ‘evil’. 

I also agree that this woman’s actions were certainly not representative of policy or common practice, but it is worrying that she managed to slip through the net for so long, especially given that she was working with vulnerable people. I can’t say I really know a lot about counselling; the government don’t recommend it a standard care for most mental illnesses because there really isn’t much of a reliable evidence base for its efficacy. Having said that, anecdotal evidence from people suggest that it does work well for some, so who am I to judge? The only judgement I will make is against this horrible ‘conversion therapy’. Ugh.

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[Trigger Warning: homophobia]  → guardian.co.uk

Two years ago, Patrick Strudwick began challenging therapists who claimed they could change a patient’s sexuality. This week he won his battle against one. 

I just can’t believe that this woman was allowed to practice and flew under the radar for so long. Glad that this reporter was able to uncover her actions, and I hope that he doesn’t suffer any long term adverse consequences as a result of her actions.

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Hello, First off--thank you for such a wonderful blog! As an aspiring psychologist, this has been a great forum. My question is concerning schizophrenia. A close friend of mine has recently been having strange experiences. She's extremely spiritual, but I am concerned that her spirituality is masking a developing problem. For example, she has spent hours playing with what she thinks is energy around her body by moving her hands around. She has strange reactions to things--once she had an orgasm while listening to music because she found it so inspiring (and things like this are happening more frequently). She claims it is a spiritual awakening, and that often she feels too overwhelmed by life because she is so affected by everything that happens around her. When in a group of people she will often go silent because she is too busy experiencing all the different emotions that everybody in the group is feeling. She also is convinced she has had ESP experiences too. Although when she still talks in a coherent manner, she certainly has delusions of grandeur and has very strange theories about the world. I do not want to label her as schizophrenic or mad because she is extremely intelligent, friendly and thoughtful. But her eccentric behavior, although beautiful in some ways, is growing more and more intense. My question is, is there a line that is crossed which discerns spirituality and schizophrenia? What behavior can be considered 'normal' and what is 'unhealthy'? And how do I approach her about this matter? Any response will help--thank you for your time!

I understand that you must be feeling very concerned right now. Whilst you’re right that prodromal or untreated schizophrenia can often be accompanied by a heightened interest or preoccupation with religion / spirituality, we must remember that these concerns are of great importance to the person concerned, so we must try not to dismiss them as purely pathological and accomodate an intervention (if needed) that is respectful of their spirituality (this is something that I know some primary care trusts here in England are becoming aware of and trying to work on - a religious / spiritual sensitivity in mental healthcare. It’s a hard line to cross, as healthcare professionals as part of the state must be seen to maintain a neutral / agnostic stance, but shouldn’t be dismissive of the concerns of the service user).

Basically, I’m limited on time here as I’m about to head to work, but you must remember that, whatever your friend may be experiencing(whether a ‘normal’ increased concern in spirituality, mania, or religious or spiritual delusions as a part of schizophrenia), she is still the ‘intelligent, friendly and thoughtful’ person you know. No diagnosis should change your view of her in that respect. There is no finite cut-off point between ‘normal’ and ‘unhealthy’ spirituality. 

I am reluctant to suggest an intervention, as I am certainly not experienced in these matters. I’m going to open that up to my followers and perhaps come back to the issue after work…

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